Vibrating Strap-Ons

What Is a Vibrating Strap-On?

A vibrating strap on is a hands-free vibrator. These vibrators have two parts: a harness and a vibrating, remote-controlled dildo. The harness is worn around the hips, and the adjustable straps allow for a comfortable and secure experience for the wearer, while the vibrating dildo allows for a sensational experience for all involved.

There are many different types of strap on vibrators, which guarantees that no matter what your sexual preferences are, in the end, you will be satisfied. These sex toys can be worn by both females and males alike. While most models are designed for couple play, there are some for solo players as well.

Vibrating strap ons are a great toy for same-sex female couples who still want the experience of penetrative sex. A strap on vibrator can also be a great addition to heterosexual couple play. While they may seem like a whole lot of sex toy, these vibrators will open up a new world of sexual pleasure for you and your partner, bringing you closer together through life-changing orgasms.

How to Use a Vibrating Strap-On

With so many different models to choose from, there are hundreds of different ways to use a vibrating strap-on. Here are some tips for using your new toy:

1. Discuss It.

Before introducing a new sex toy into your play, discuss it with your partner. You should do this with any new sex toy, but especially with a vibrating strap on. Talk about what kind of experience each of you would want the toy to bring to your play and find a model that will meet both of your needs.

2. Test It.

When you finally decide on a strap on a vibrator and it arrives, you’re going to be excited and will want to use it right away. Instead, take a few minutes to become familiar with the toy. How do you turn it on? How do the straps work? How do you change the vibration settings? Which setting do you like the most? These are all questions you will want to have answered before using your new toy for the first time.

3. Clean It.

After packaging, shipping, and you test it, your vibrating strap-on has been through a lot already. Before you and your partner use it, clean your new toy. You can do this with a wet, soapy rag or by wiping it down with a toy cleaner. For cleaning tips, check out the “How to Clean a Vibrating Strap-On” section of this page.

4. Wear It.

Now that you’ve done all of the prep work, you are ready for the moment you’ve been waiting for. Grab your partner, take them into your room, undress, and put on your strap on vibrator.

5. Use It.

Whether you are wearing the strap on the vibrator or you are the one receiving all of the vibrating attention, it’s time for the fun to begin. Watch pleasure wash over your partner as you can simulate penetrative sex with the added vibrating sensation.

Lose yourself as your partner takes you on a sexual adventure. No one said you have to keep the same roles. You and your partner can take turns wearing the vibrating strap-on. This will give you the best of both vibrating sensual worlds.

6. Clean It.

It’s best to get into the practice of cleaning your sex toys after using them as well as before. We know it might sound like a lot, but you can never be too clean when it comes to a toy used on your genitals.

7. Power It.

If your vibrator is low on juice, now is a good time to power up; replace the batteries or plug it into recharge. Never use a rechargeable model while it’s charging. Do all of this now so that the next time you and your partner are ready to play, so is your vibrating strap-on.

Types of Vibrating Strap-Ons

As sex toys have grown in popularity, the types you have to choose from have grown. Here are the different types of vibrating strap ons available to you:

Vibrating Dildo Strap-On

This kind of strap on is probably what you immediately thought of when you read “vibrating strap on” at the top of this page. These are the most basic type of vibrating strap ons. A vibrating dildo is attached to a harness that a person wears. These models are a good choice for people who are just starting out with wearable vibrators. You can purchase a toy that has a realistic dildo or one that is more abstract but still has the shape of a penis.

Double Vibrating Strap-On

Just because you are the one wearing the toy doesn’t mean you can’t experience any penetration. Double vibrating strap ons have a dildo on the outside of the harness that goes into your partner and a second dildo on the inside that goes into you. Even models have two dildos on the inside, allowing for vaginal and anal penetration of the wearer.

Anal Vibrating Strap-On

These models are worn by putting one end inside the wearer’s anus. The other end is used on your partner like the other models of wearable vibrators we’ve discussed. These models don’t have a harness, the part that is inside the wearer’s anus is what keeps it up and secure.

Vibrating Hollow Strap-On

A vibrating hollow strap on is designed for a male wearer. The inside of the attachable dildo is hollow, which allows your partner to slip their penis inside. Heterosexual couples use these models because your partner can still experience the thrill of penetrating you. The bonus is the added vibration from the toy. Because it is worn, the toy won’t get in the way as hand-held vibrators can. While your partner is wearing it, they will experience some of the vibrations as well. Bonus!

Vibrating Clit Strap-On

Unlike the other types of strap on vibrators on this list, these models don’t include a vibrating dildo. Instead, their sole focus is your clitoris. Vibrating clit strap ons have straps or harnesses still, but with a vibrator designed to lay along your genital area.

Vibrating Rabbit Strap-On

They took a rabbit vibrator and put it on a harness. Genius! Just like a regular rabbit vibrator, this type of strap on has nodules, “rabbit ears”, that will stimulate your clitoris while your partner thrusts the vibrating dildo inside of you.

Strapless

We know the page is called “Vibrating Strap Ons”, but we would be remiss not to mention the strapless models. These models have a similar design to the anal vibrating strap-ons. They are double-sided, and one end goes inside your vagina while you use the other end on your partner. These models are nice if you don’t want to deal with all of the straps that come with a harness and want to be penetrated while penetrating your partner.

How to Pick the Best Vibrating Strap-On

When shopping for a vibrating strap-on, you have many options out there to pick from. Here are some things to keep in mind while making your decision:

Use

When buying a new sex toy, it’s important to identify how you want to use the toy. Different uses require different designs. So, while in theory you can use one toy interchangeably for different things, you will achieve ultimate pleasure when you purchase a toy designed specifically for how you want to use it.

Materials

Most sex toys are made from either plastic or silicone. Plastic models will be a bit firmer than silicone models. Both materials however, allow for a pleasurable experience. Research the models you are interested in and make sure you aren’t allergic to anything used to make it.

Size

In the case of vibrating strap ons, size means two things. First, we’re talking about the harness. Make sure you purchase a model that will fit you or your partner. Most harnesses are adjustable, so you’ll have some wiggle room when it comes to this part of the toy. The second thing to consider is the size of the vibrating dildo.

Like other vibrators, the attachable dildos on strap ons have a range of lengths. Generally, they are between 5 and 12 inches. It’s also important to consider how much of that length will go inside you (insertable length). This will be about 4.5 to 9 inches.

Design

Vibrating strap ons offer you hundreds of different designs to choose from. Many models are very realistic and look like a real human penis. You can also get models that have a futuristic design and kind of look like rocket ships. Some models have a smooth shaft. While others have ripples or veins, adding another sensation when inserted.

Power

The beauty of these sex toys is that they are a wearable vibrator. But that vibration has to be powered somehow. Battery-powered models usually require smaller batteries: AA, AAA or watch batteries. You can also purchase rechargeable models. Either one of these power sources will last you about 1 to 2 hours.

Waterproof

If you like to add water to your play, there are models of strap on waterproof vibrators. However, not all models offer the same level of water safety. Submersible models are safe to be used in the bathtub, shower or pool. Some models are splash-proof, meaning bodily fluids and cleaning are okay. With both of these, using lubrication is safe. Just make sure the lube is water-based.

Flexibility

Just like nonwearable dildos and vibrators, vibrating strap ons vary in flexibility. If you prefer a sturdy and rough ride, we recommend getting a model that is considered firm. Looking for something that will bend to your will? Look at models that are flexible.

How Much Does a Vibrating Strap-on Cost?

The variety of vibrating strap-ons and places you can buy them means you also have various price points to choose from. You can spend anywhere from $20-$200 on these sex toys. Some things that will affect the price are design, material, use, power source.

While you might be tempted to go with the cheapest option, keep in mind that with sex toys, you get what you pay for. If you spend $20, you will probably get a toy that looks, feels, and operates like $20. That being said, don’t go rushing to purchase a $200 model just because more money means better.

Truly take the time to research the different options available and find a toy that will fulfill your sexual desires while also staying within your budget.

Where to Buy a Vibrating Strap-On

When you’ve finally decided on which vibrating strap on you want, you can try one of these shopping options to purchase your new sex toy:

Online

Shopping for sex toys online is great if you want to have many options to choose from. Websites like AdamAndEve.com and LoveHoney.com have any type of vibrating strap-on in any design you could want. Because sex toys are their focus, these websites will offer some higher quality toys.

Websites like Spensers.com and Walmart.com will offer strap ons but won’t have as many options, and you may sacrifice quality with some of their models. Amazon.com is also a great place to explore, but make sure to read the reviews to make sure you’re getting a quality item.

We know online shopping can be overwhelming because of all the choices available to you. That’s why we made our list of 10 Best Vibrating Strap-Ons. The list makes it easy for you to compare different models and purchase them right from the list.

Local Sex Shop

Before the internet, the local sex shop was your only option for purchasing sex toys. While the internet has changed things, you can still count on your local sex shop to have toys to fulfill your sexual fantasies. You’ll be able to actually see what you are buying with your own eyes and ask a live person any of your lingering questions.

How to Clean a Vibrating Strap-On

Proper hygiene is very important when using sex toys. You don’t want to use a toy that is dirty or that hasn’t been properly cleaned. Here is how you can clean your vibrating strap on:

Hand-Wash

Try spraying a rag or paper towel with soapy water or a toy cleaner and using that to wipe down your toy. If your toy can be submerged in water, fill a sink with warm soapy water and wash it (including the straps) in that mixture. Dry the dildo with a clean towel or paper towel and lay the harness flat to dry. Never put your vibrating strap on in a washer or dryer. Cleaning the straps in the sink is the best option.

High-Tech

If you are looking to invest in your toys, consider purchasing a sex toy cleaner online. You can find models that are less than $200. These are water and soap-free option; they use UV lights to kill 99% of bacteria. All you have to do is put your toy inside, press start, and wait 10 minutes. This is a hassle-free option with no mess or dry time.

Michael GrantContent creator @ BestSexToys.com

Michael Grant is an excellent writer and storyteller, which makes him one of the essential pillars of the content creation team. He's constantly traveling around the U.S. and loves attending numerous training and workshops on marketing and product development. He loves surprising the team with fresh ideas and the latest developments in the sex toy industry. His other interests include music and sports.

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Last Update: Jan. 19, 2025